Every person has different hair than the next and mine is worse than anyone's. It is nappy, thick and completely unmanageable. The only way for me to tame this stuff—without the aid of chemicals—is to put it in braids or twists (more my style). Although it takes around 5–6 hours to twist, I won't have to worry about doing anything to it for the next two months! It's worth the money that I pay to have it done. Anyway, let me know about your hair taming woes.